Obituaries
Mrs. Gwendolyn Margaret "Gwen" Whilden
12/12/1948 - 12/06/2025
Gwendolyn Margaret Whilden, a beloved 76-year-old resident of Boydton, Virginia entered eternal life with our Heavenly Father on Saturday, December 6, 2025, in Richmond. She was a committed wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother. For many years, Gwen was the Office Manager for Glenn Barbour CPA of South Hill before retiring in 2019. She was a devout Christian and a true and worthy servant of God. She lived each day with unwavering faith, humility and grace. Gwen was a beacon of light in the lives of all that knew her. She is survived by her husband of 48 years, David J. Whilden, and their four children: Debbie Parker (spouse Richard) and Karen Reister, both of Michigan; Scott L. Whilden (spouse Chrissy) of Jacksonville, Florida; and Robert J. Whilden (spouse Angela) of Virginia Beach, Virginia. Gwen’s cherished grandchildren include April, Sandra, Timmy, Joshua, Eric, Greg, Christopher, Rob, Matthew, Rachel, Hudson, Charles, and Jarod. Gwen was also loved by 20 great-grandchildren. A Memorial Funeral Service will be held on Thursday, December 11, 2025, at 12:00 p.m. at Crowder-Hite-Crews Funeral Home, officiated by Dr. P.J. Parker, Pastor. A private interment will follow at Bethal Baptist Church Cemetery in Boydton, Virginia. The family will welcome friends on Thursday from 10:00 a.m. until the service begins. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests making a memorial contribution in Gwen’s name to the church family that she knew and loved, New Horizon Baptist Church, located at 183 Revival Rd., Blackstone, VA. 23824. Gwen’s faith and devotion will continue to inspire us and remind us to walk in love and live with purpose.
“Well done, good and faithful servant” (Matthew 25:23)
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My condolences. She will be missed. She had such a loving and generous heart. But take comfort in knowing she is walking streets of gold holding Jesus hand.
Always & Forever
Today, we gather with heavy hearts but also with deep gratitude for the beautiful life my grandmother Gwendolyn Margaret Whilden lived. She was a woman whose kindness touched everyone she met, whose laughter made even the hardest days lighter, and whose love held our family together in ways words can barely describe.
Gwen had a special way of making each of us feel seen, valued, and cherished. Whether it was through her warm hugs, her wise advice, or the simple comfort of her presence, she gave love freely and wholeheartedly. She taught me patience, strength, generosity, and the importance of caring for one another.
Though our hearts are broken by her passing, we are blessed to have had her in our lives. Her spirit will live on in the lessons she taught, in the traditions she passed down, and in the love she poured into our family. We will carry her memory with us, always.
May she rest peacefully, reunited with the loved ones who went before her, and may we honor her legacy by living our lives with the same kindness, grace, and love she showed every day.
Grandma, we love you. We miss you. And we will hold you in our hearts forever.
Always and Forever, your grandson Christopher Whilden
Sending Love and Prayers to Gwen's Family
Dave, we are keeping you and your family in our prayers. Losing a beloved spouse is one of the hardest things ever.
Condolences
My life has been truly blessed by having met Gwen at a Quilting Retreat. What a joy!
Accept my sincere and heartfelt sympathy. May the Love and Peace of our Heavenly Father surround you with wonderful memories.
Remebering Aunt Gwen
Dave and family, we are so sorry for your loss. Gwen was a wonderful person and I always enjoyed the times we were able to get together or just share a phone call. I’m sorry I can’t make it out for the services tomorrow. Please know you and the family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Much love to you all.
In Loving Memory
In loving memory of my dear friend Gwen, whose life was a beacon of Christ’s light and grace. Her unwavering support and inspiration touched my life deeply, and her kindness was a source of strength in times of need. Her hugs were such a source of strength and I am forever grateful for her presence and the positive impact she had on me and my family and our hearts. Until we meet again, I love and miss you! Our prayers and love go out to your sweet husband and family!!
Dave and family, So sorry to hear of Gwen’s passing. It was a shock to us. Gwen was a very sweet, loving and wonderful lady. We will truly miss her beautiful smile and chats!! Praying for the family and asking God to wrap his arms around you’ll! Keep those precious memories of her close to your heart!!
Heaven has gained an angel she was a beautiful person, inside and out
Remembrance
My Precious forever friend Gwen. I’m I in prayer for your family. Sending our love to David. Gwen was an amazing friend to me. Love laughter and tears. Lunches and beautiful fellowship. I will see you again in heaven. David, Ron and I love you. Thank you for sharing Gwen with us.
So sorry to hear this, Gwen was a special friend. Prayers for David & family.
Remembering Gwen
May GOD be with you all giving you his peace . I knew Gwen thru the accounting ofc. Which she was office mgr. at. I so enjoyed seeing her each time I went there. She was truly a very genuine and sweet lady. I felt we became friends there. I know she will be truly missed by her family and others. BP May GOD continue to bless you all with such beautiful memories. She was such a beautiful lady.
Dave and family love and prayers
Dave and family, sending our love and prayers. Gwen was one of the sweetest people I knew and my sister in Christ. She loved the Lord dearly and it just glowed in her. So happy to call her my friend. I enjoyed all the years we went to Church together. Praying the Lord wrap his arms around you and your family. Love in Jesus, Debbie Watson and Family. We will all be together again.